5 Do not address an older man harshly [ a ] but appeal to him as a father. Speak to younger men as brothers, [ b ] 2 older women as mothers, and younger women as sisters—with complete purity.
3 Honor [ c ] widows who are truly in need. [ d ] 4 But if a widow has children or grandchildren, they should first learn to fulfill their duty [ e ] toward their own household and so repay their parents what is owed them. [ f ] For this is what pleases God. [ g ] 5 But the widow who is truly in need, and completely on her own, [ h ] has set her hope on God and continues in her pleas and prayers night and day. 6 But the one who lives for pleasure is dead even [ i ] while she lives. 7 Reinforce [ j ] these commands, [ k ] so that they will be beyond reproach. 8 But if someone does not provide for his own, [ l ] especially his own family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.
9 No widow should be put on the list [ m ] unless [ n ] she is at least sixty years old, was the wife of one husband, [ o ] 10 and has a reputation for good works: as one who has raised children, [ p ] practiced hospitality, washed the feet of the saints, helped those in distress—as one who has exhibited all kinds of good works. [ q ] 11 But do not accept younger widows on the list, [ r ] because their passions may lead them away from Christ [ s ] and they will desire to marry, 12 and so incur judgment for breaking their former pledge. [ t ] 13 And besides that, going around [ u ] from house to house they learn to be lazy, [ v ] and they are not only lazy, but also gossips and busybodies, talking about things they should not. [ w ] 14 So I want younger women to marry, raise children, and manage a household, in order to give the adversary no opportunity to vilify us. [ x ] 15 For some have already wandered away to follow Satan. [ y ] 16 If a believing woman [ z ] has widows in her family, [ aa ] let her help them. The church should not be burdened, so that it may help the widows who are truly in need. [ ab ]
17 Elders who provide effective leadership [ ac ] must be counted worthy [ ad ] of double honor, [ ae ] especially those who work hard in speaking [ af ] and teaching. 18 For the scripture says, “ Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain ,” [ ag ] and, “The worker deserves his pay.” [ ah ] 19 Do not accept an accusation against an elder unless it can be confirmed by two or three witnesses . [ ai ] 20 Those guilty of sin [ aj ] must be rebuked [ ak ] before all, [ al ] as a warning to the rest. [ am ] 21 Before God and Christ Jesus and the elect angels, I solemnly charge you to carry out these commands without prejudice or favoritism of any kind. [ an ] 22 Do not lay hands on anyone [ ao ] hastily and so identify with the sins of others. [ ap ] Keep yourself pure. 23 (Stop drinking just water, but use a little wine for your digestion [ aq ] and your frequent illnesses.) [ ar ] 24 The sins of some people are obvious, going before them into judgment, but for others, they show up later. [ as ] 25 Similarly good works are also obvious, and the ones that are not cannot remain hidden.