3 In the same way, wives, be subject to your own husbands. Then, [ a ] even if some are disobedient to the word, they will be won over without a word by the way you live, [ b ] 2 when they see your pure and reverent conduct. [ c ] 3 Let your [ d ] beauty [ e ] not be external—the braiding of hair and wearing of gold jewelry [ f ] or fine clothes— 4 but the inner person [ g ] of the heart, the lasting beauty of a gentle and tranquil spirit, which is precious in God’s sight. 5 For in the same way the holy women who hoped in God long ago adorned themselves by being subject to their husbands, 6 like Sarah who obeyed [ h ] Abraham, calling him lord. You become her children [ i ] when you do what is good and have no fear in doing so. [ j ] 7 Husbands, in the same way, treat your wives with consideration as the weaker partners and show them honor [ k ] as fellow heirs of the grace of life. In this way nothing will hinder your prayers. [ l ]
8 Finally, all of you be harmonious, [ m ] sympathetic, affectionate, compassionate, and humble. 9 Do not return evil for evil or insult for insult, but instead bless [ n ] others [ o ] because you were called to inherit a blessing. 10 For
the one who wants to love life and see good days must
keep [ p ] his tongue from evil and his lips from uttering
deceit .
11 And he must turn away from evil and do good;
he must seek peace and pursue it .
12 For the eyes of the Lord are [ q ] upon the righteous and his ears are open to their
prayer .
But the Lord’s face is against those who do evil . [ r ]
13 For [ s ] who is going to harm you if you are devoted to what is good? 14 But in fact, if you happen to suffer [ t ] for doing what is right, [ u ] you are blessed. But do not be terrified of them [ v ] or be shaken . [ w ] 15 But set Christ [ x ] apart [ y ] as Lord in your hearts and always be ready to give an answer to anyone who asks about the hope you possess. [ z ] 16 Yet do it with courtesy and respect, [ aa ] keeping a good conscience, so that those who slander your good conduct in Christ may be put to shame when they accuse you. [ ab ] 17 For it is better to suffer for doing good, if God wills it, [ ac ] than for doing evil.
18 [ ad ] Because Christ also suffered [ ae ] once for sins,
the just for the unjust , [ af ]
to bring you to God,
by being put to death in the flesh
but [ ag ] by being made alive in the spirit. [ ah ]
19 In it [ ai ] he went and preached to the spirits in prison, [ aj ]
20 after they were disobedient long ago [ ak ] when God patiently waited [ al ] in the days of Noah as an ark was being constructed. In the ark [ am ] a few, that is eight souls, were delivered through water. 21 And this prefigured baptism, which now saves you [ an ] —not the washing off of physical dirt [ ao ] but the pledge [ ap ] of a good conscience to God—through the resurrection of Jesus Christ, 22 who went into heaven and is at the right hand of God [ aq ] with angels and authorities and powers subject to him. [ ar ]